When you realize that the environment you exist in is incompatible, unsuited for you and it becomes inhospitable, You have four options:
You can either,
All these require distinct traits. Let’s see what some of them are:
- Adjust: To adjust in such an environment means to be okay with things as they are. You will need patience, tolerance, malleability, and open- mindedness to do this. You have to be willing to change yourself and suppress a lot of thoughts.
- Conquer: To conquer such an environment means to rule over it. It requires energy, will-to-power, boldness, and cunningness.
- Change: To change such an environment means struggling to eliminate the toxicity in it. It means changing the agents. It requires involvement, persuasion, vision, and communication. You don’t necessarily have to conquer to change.
- Leave: To leave such an environment means to quit it altogether to never return again. It requires courage, imagination, determination and detachment.
Q: What’s the best option among them?
A: In life, 4 isn’t an option, so I would go for 3. If it’s any other environment, I would go for 4. But it all depends on the traits you have or can have.